Socrates said that the unexamined life is not worth living. I have been known to examine things a bit too thoroughly, but I still have questions that leave me bewildered.
· What is it about so-called “bad boys” that makes them so attractive? Is it because you never know where you stand with one? Maybe they make you feel more normal?
· Why do people focus on the positive things in their past relationships and the negative things of current ones? Seems kind of backwards to me.
· Why do people always want what they can’t have? But the moment they get something, they’re not sure they want it anymore. Um…I got nothin’…
· Why are men attracted to “damsels in distress” and the drama that comes with them? Life doesn’t need to be so complicated. There should be balance in a relationship.
· Why do men/women who have been cheated on in the past, turn around and become the “other man/woman”? Baffles me, for sure.
· Is it really possible to be polyamorous? Or do people use it to get away with something?
· Is there such a thing as a bisexual man or is he just gay? Could he just be gay and adventurous?
· Why are so many men obsessed with cars and motorcycles? These things don’t appeal to me at all. A man getting a good deal on a purchase – now that’s hot!
· Does a “friends with benefits” relationship EVER turn out well? Hell no!
· Why do people forget all the negative things in past relationships and remember them as being great? Obviously they weren’t great or their relationship would still be going on.
Obviously, the answers to these questions are subjective and are based on individual experiences. I would be interested to hear your responses as well as other questions that perplex you.