Showing posts with label First Date. Show all posts
Showing posts with label First Date. Show all posts

Thursday, May 12, 2011

To Kiss Or Not To Kiss: Part II

Is it possible to go to a "lookout point" and not make out?! My friend "Jane" has the answer to that!

Meg: So...Did you kiss him? Did you go out with him again? My followers are dying to know!

Jane: Hellooooooooo! Yes I kissed him, but no spit was exchanged. I also had two glasses of wine, so my self control should be very impressive.

Meg: Wow! I am very proud of you!  How long did the date last? Did you do something after dinner?

Jane: He picked me up at 8:30 and I got home at 1:30.

Meg: He picked you up on a first date?! Soooo dangerous!

Jane: We went to the Porcupine, had a leisurely dinner and drinks, then went for a drive and ended up parking at some lookout point. I kind of felt like I was in high school! Haha!

Meg: Good thing he wasn't a homicidal maniac! So how is it that you went to lovers lane and you kissed him with no exchange of spit??

Jane: Self control! And avoidance! I could tell he wanted to full on make out, but I took control of the situation.

Meg: Wow! That is amazing! Was there a little Mini-Meg sitting on your shoulder?

Jane: Yep, it was the reporting pressure! And we went to a movie last night and there was still no kissing cuz I'm a coughing sickie. But there was hand holding and butt grabbing (with him doing the grabbing)… oooooh yeah!

Meg: Wow! So is there potential with this guy?

Jane: I think so! I think for the next month or two, he'll probably be in the rotation once a week cuz I'm in a place where I'm annoyed frequently and not too into dating and we're both busy. Maybe in July I will feel like dating more. But this guy is awesome, and such a catch. Hopefully he'll stick around in the rotation and wait for me.

Meg: For sure.

Jane: He told me I was the reason he signed up for “unnamed dating site” in the first place, cute huh! He got a free account and was looking around, and he saw my profile but in order to contact me he has to pay! Haha!

Meg: Nice!

The poll this week was whether or not it was appropriate to kiss on the first date. The majority of people said it is appropriate if it feels right.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Top 10 Locations for Dates in Salt Lake City According to Meg

The following list of locations for dates is simply based on my own experiences. My hopes are that this list will help you make suggestions when planning future dates.


1.     Brewvies Cinema Pub, 677 South 200 West*

Great food, pool tables, pinball machines…And if the conversation winds down you can always catch a flick. If things are going really well, you can venture over to Dr. John’s Adult Novelty Store for supplies!! Wink, wink…

2.     Coffee Garden, 898 East 900 South

Perfect for a first meeting. Grab your coffee/tea/hot chocolate and sit outside and watch all the interesting people that frequent 9th & 9th. If the weather is nice enough take a walk. Be warned that it can get quite loud inside the Coffee Garden but step outside the door and you won’t have to shout as you get to know each other.

3.     Mazza, 912 East 900 South

Mazza specializes in Middle Eastern food. If you are looking for someone who is cultural, this is a great suggestion to make. His/her willingness will tell you a lot. Has he/she had Middle Eastern food before? If he/she hasn’t is he/she willing to give it a try? The atmosphere is great, the waiters are friendly, and the food is amazing, and strange as it may sound, they have the best French fries!

4.     Sawadee, 754 East South Temple

Sawadee is a Thai restaurant that would be perfect for a lunch date. Great décor and atmosphere. The waiters are fast and efficient and the prices are reasonable. The food is phenomenal. The volume inside the restaurant is low and when weather permits there is also outdoor seating.

5.     The Beerhive, 128 South Main*

Patio seating, hundreds of beers to choose from, German and pub food, pool tables and foosball make this a great downtown meeting place. With Utah Trax running right in front of The Beerhive, you may even factor in a Trax ride (to or from) for some extra “get-to-know-you” time.

6.     Desert Edge Brewery, 273 Trolley Square

Located in Trolley Square, Desert Edge Brewery (aka The Pub) is a great place for a date. The laid back atmosphere, efficiency of the staff, and flattering lighting will put you at ease, take the pressure off, and give you an opportunity to eat some amazing food. If you find yourself having a good time, you can extend your date by doing some window shopping in Trolley Square.

7.     Fiddler’s Elbow, 1063 East 2100 South*
Fiddler’s is located in the heart of Sugarhouse. If you are a sports fan, this may be a good option for a date (not a first date, mind you). If you get distracted easily, the vibe you give off may not be what you want your date to see early on. The food is great and the beer is cold. Beware: if a big sporting event is going on, it may get a bit loud. But if you are looking for a way to break the ice, sports may be a great start.

8.     Coffee Connection, 1588 South State Street

At Coffee Connection, just west of Salt Lake Community College’s South City Campus, you can sit and drink coffee for hours and not be bothered. If you hate being the one to walk in to a place where your date is already waiting, get there early, bring your laptop, use the wifi, and turn the tables (let your date walk in to you).

9.     Oasis Café, 151 South 500 East

At Oasis they believe in balance, not only in the food they serve, but also in the environment. Sit inside or in the courtyard, you will be able to hear each other talk just fine. Oasis also offers many vegetarian and vegan options. Support a local business and enjoy good food and (hopefully) good company. Peruse the Golden Braid Bookstore while you’re there. Don’t forget to share a piece of Decadent Vegan Chocolate Cake!

10.  Tony Caputo’s Market & Deli, 314 West 300 South

Tony Caputo’s is perfect for a no-pressure meet and greet. If you live in Salt Lake City, you probably already know how amazing the food is at this place. You can get a meal, and then buy some olive oil and chocolate. Outdoor seating is perfect for conversation, especially since it is across from Pioneer Park.

*Must be 21 to enter.

Please contribute! If you have other suggestions, I would love to hear them!